PhantomWoof - Borderline ERP, Spending Significant portions of the round on relationships, MetaFriending, OOC in IC

Username: PhantomWoof

Ban reason: Borderline ERP, Spending Significant portions of the round on relationships, MetaFriending, OOC in IC
Length of ban: Indefinite
Ban Issue:
I did what I was banned for, but the ban is unreasonably harsh

Vote Opt-Out: false

Events leading to the ban

Me and billy-the-boi we’re in maints emoting kissing and hugging and were basically doing romance when a regular player named Nilk kept stalking us and reported us for our behavior.

Reason the ban should be removed

This is my own opinion, please don’t include billy in it.

I will admit, our behaviours me and Billy has been very problematic to a birds eye view and been borderline against the rules but like the events I described, Nilk has been stalking us for a lot of games now and I’m pretty sure is the reason why me and billy is banned at this time. I will agree that me and billy has been doing most of all the ban reasons and appealing about it is basically reaching impossible land of second chance but I wanted to still try and explain the reasoning why we were doing such behaviours, so I can give a different image to everyone that will see this appeal.

[Borderline ERP + Romance + OOC in IC]:
Me and billy has been committing a lot of romance and I will admit it, not just in game but also on discord for a month now. I have been getting closer to him so I could assist him mentally because of his past haunting him, I’ve been trying to help him to feel better and brighten his days by spending it in SS14 because we have no where else to allow such interaction to happen… I deeply apologise for this but borderline ERP seems abused for what we were doing, I don’t remember kissing and hugging to be sexually erotic role play so I wish for that reason to be re-evaluated. We know what ERP is and wasn’t ever planning to go as far as committing such degenerous actions.
For the OOC in IC, I can confirm, yes we we’re talking together in IC because the whispering was the only thing we could use to keep our talking mostly private, if there was a whispering looc we would’ve used it 100% but such feature doesn’t exist yet and i’m deeply sorry for ‘abusing’ the IC feature but the talking we had lead to continue using it and we never thought using outside communication for such conversations at that moment in time. We never wanted to break that rule, we just got caught in the moment and it blew over our heads, again I’m sorry and pretty sure billy is too…

[Meta-Friending]:
I’m not sure why this reason was included, probably as a filler to add more complexity to our ban but me and billy know meta friending is against the rules and we never committed such act in game, sure in some rounds, we did slide each other in some departments like the last time I played HoP, I invited billy in my office but never I gave him AA, never I gave him guns or assisted him in any way shape or form, only invited him so we could hang out together since there wasn’t much happening at that time, I was still committed in doing my job as HoP is a high demand job. Again, I’m sorry but I wish for an explanation for such reason to exist.

In conclusion, I wanted to still attempt to appeal because what else am I supposed to do, SS14 was a huge part of my days and having to quit playing (wizard’s den is the only server that is enjoyable and not crazy stupid on features like delta for example). Me and billy (I’m talking for him right now) are deeply sorry and if we were let a second chance, I would personally let him know that we need to tone our current behaviour in game to barely nothing, it would hurt but that’s the rules if we wish to continue, I was myself also trying to restrain from doing relationship with him and do my job but it was quite hard because well… love is a strong thing to overcome sometimes, especially when you are here to mentally help someone get through their emotions and depression…

We are deeply sorry, me and billy and is willing to change our behaviours if a second chance is considered.

Phantom Woof~ <3

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Since you mentioned “we” more than once and seem to imply at the end that you are both sorry, I would like to make it explicitly clear that regardless of the results of this appeal, Frosty/billy-the-boi will be required to file a separate appeal in order to have their ban reviewed.

So I guess the essay I typed is not enough to allow me to enjoy one of my most favourite game… I really don’t want to abandon this game… I spent too much hours into it ;n;

Your appeal has not been processed yet.

What Retequizzle is telling you, is that For Frosty to have the ban reviewed for the chance of being lifted, Frosty will also have to submit their own appeal.

You cannot appeal on the behalf of someone else. Only for yourself.

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Welp… I guess I ain’t getting unbanned judging the time it took so far… sigh

cough cough

This is still in admin discussion, I’ll get back to you shortly with a resolution.

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This has been put to an admin discussion and vote of which we have come to the consensus to issue a voucher requirement for further appeals.

The reasons provided in the discussion for this decision were the following:

  • NSFW content.
  • Metacomms.
  • Knowingly Breaking rules.
  • Lack of trust.
  • Meta-friending.
  • Relationships becoming focus.

You may appeal your ban, but only at least 6 months after your last ban, and only with a voucher of good behavior from another SS13/SS14 server.
A voucher of good behavior should be obtained from a well-known or decently active SS13/SS14 server. If it is a mainstream server, we recommend using that server’s admin-help to ask for a voucher from one of the administrators explaining that you are trying to appeal a ban on SS14’s Wizard’s Den and want to show you have been a problem-free player during your playtime on the server. A voucher should be indicative of at least a few months of play. If the voucher is not from a mainstream server, let us know and we will figure out a way to verify it.

Appeal Denied - Voucher must be provided on any future re-appeal.

Welp, kinda expected that… Thank you for making such a chaotic and yet fun game but clearly, I deserve no second chance sigh. Well, it was nice while it lasted… Goodbye SS14* and all the friends I made along the way, you were fun as hell.

Phantomis Woofer. :broken_heart:

*I won’t be able to provide a voucher ever from any other servers since I can’t find the same enjoyment as wizard’s den was giving in other servers. I grinded too much hours in wizard’s to even be capable to play elsewhere and I don’t have the patience and will to start over.

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