Servers Without Overbearing Moderation

Are there any servers where I do not constantly have to walk on eggshells with my language? This game is predominantly played by adult men.
I do not understand for the life of me why the admins take such pride in banning people for saying words as mild as the “R-Word”, which apparently is sacrilege on this forum as well.

With that being said. I do not expect that to be the case, which is a shame.

This game would be very good if it weren’t for the admins being control freaks.

If there are any servers for average people, or at least ones with warnings, I would love to know.

There’s plenty of other forks, join them, read the rules.

adult men

Source?